no, you listen! i just want you to know exactly who you are dealing with! how many women do you see in this kitchen? only me! why do you think that is? because haute cuisine is an antiquated hierarchy built upon rules written by stupid, old, *men*. rules designed to make it impossible for women to enter this world. but still i'm here! how did this happen? because i am the toughest cook in this kitchen! i have worked too hard for too long to get here, and i am *not* going to jeopardize it for some garbage boy who got lucky! got it?